Thank you for your question!
In today’s Murli (11-8-12) Baba mentioned: “When you forget to be a soul, you believe yourself to be a body. Then, you have relationships with bodies. While in bondage remember this relationship.”
Further he mentioned his concept of relationship: (“there is sorrow in bondage and happiness in a relationship,”) by saying:” A relationship with ONE means a stable mind which does not wonder.”
That is the meaning of having all relationships with the Father, an intellect which is single pointedly in the experience of the soul. This is supported by the statement in the Avyakt Murli dated October 28, 2012. “To be merged in the Father means to become the same form as the Father.” that is to “become combined and become One.”
To believe that we can be the father and for God to be the child or that we could be the wife and God the husband, the bride and the bridegroom, the lover and the beloved, etc, etc. is a preliminary understanding based on corporeal feelings of the experience of the soul. We need to understand that those “relationships” are still in the realm of physicality; and God is incorporeal; nevertheless; we need to learn how to walk before we can attempt to run.