“Life at the office” is the term used to describe our worldly experience of a man-made world away from the laws of Nature.
When our mind is immersed in the “world at the office,” then our understanding of the Universe and the way Life operates will be very limited.
Anne wanted to “improve” herself. Anne was taught that “knowledge is power” so she went to the bookstore where she found plenty of books. Anne decided to go for “Self help” under that, she found “spirituality” and in another subsection, there was “Western,” “Eastern” and “New Age,” thought. The labels were neatly divided into different religions and philosophies and then into different authors.
Anne felt a bit overwhelmed that she had to read so many books to “help herself.”
Anne decided to hire someone, a local Guru who she heard “talks pretty good stuff” to “coach” Anne into getting certified as a “spiritual life coach,” so she can become a teacher to “make the difference in the lives of many.”
Anne heard: “You could be what you want to be. Your past does not determine your destiny unless you decide that. You could follow a proven path to help your clients to reach their goals.”
Anne then had a successful training in the “Secret” and in metaphysical studies.
Anne became a proven knowledgeable Guru of life… She was certified and she went through rigorous training… 🙂
The above scenario illustrates our belief in the “world at the office” to understand “self-help” or “spirituality,” which Avyakt7 likes to call “living life with joy.”
Obviously, there is no way that any sort of “book learning” and “certification” could give anyone the wisdom coming from insight.
But… what about if Anne joins a religion?
What about if Anne stays in that religion for 30 or more years? Could she become a “true” spiritual guru?
Of course she will. The followers of her path will be her audience. She will be the example of dedication and love to whatever they believe is worthwhile in life.
Certifications are not required here, but unbreakable loyalty to a dogma is the most important valued item.
However meaningful that may be, it does not mean that Anne will experience the art of living life with joy, that is to be “spiritual.” 🙂
That cannot be learned by following a particular path, for life is greater than just one path.
Something outlined to be followed to reach “illumination” will present the typical duality: Acceptance of “my path” and rejection of other paths.
Isn’t it? Do we see that?
If you hear someone who is representing any religion, once you heard that person; you have heard more or less all the followers who belong to that path.
You know their definitions. You know their philosophy. You know what they believe in. You know what they represent.
The structure, the dogma becomes very important to repeat. Repression will arise in that circumstance and with that the inability to perceive Oneness.
The “world at the office” has taught us: “This is good, that is bad. This is right, that is wrong. This is moral, that is not. We have the truth, they do not. We have God with us, they do not. We will go to heaven, they will not. Our ideas are correct, theirs is not.”
The Universe, Nature, life, does not support that segregation.
The experience of the path of “certifications” or the path of “loyalty to a dogma,” both are good experiences.
The issue resides in the belief that “we have found the truth.”
That is the biggest illusion. That is the greatest ego builder there is.
If we would like to understand life, Nature, the Universe, that means to become it, to be that truth, not to talk about it.
For that, we may need to observe.
To observe we may need to clean our minds from previous learning.
That cleaning is personal. Every one of us has different experiences, different beliefs, different emotional issues, different traumas, etc.
In other words, as our minds become “pure” by dissolving all the previous learning, we have the space, the openness to observe and learn from Nature itself.
That is the meaning of being born again.
It is evident that no bookstore or teacher is going to teach us that, because all we could get from them is more information (books, CDs, DVDs) that will cloud the mind with preconceptions of life…. of Nature.
However, if the above is just accepted because Avyakt7 says so; that is a big illusion as well.
It has to be realized. It has to be the product of our own experience. It has to be the fruit of previous search, of previous experiences of looking for answers… This is the “homework” that may need to be done so the next chapter starts afresh.
The beauty of the range of experiences in life will take the “life walker” from gaining information into emptying himself from it. The “method” is according to where our consciousness is located. Some may need to gain information, others to dissolve it as beliefs.
As that emptiness is necessary for our insight to appear, we could be like those birds who already know about flying in a “V” formation without ever going to a library to learn… and that insight cannot be put into words for “others” to follow.
It is immediate, intuitive…reflecting only the moment, the now.
Life only brings episodes to our own lives which are a consequence of previous deeds, of previous “choosing.”
What “I” make happen is what happens to “me.”
Life is a continuous choice. That is a perspective on life. The perspective of “I” the “doer.”
Even when we choose not to do anything, we are choosing. No action is a form of action.
In some spiritual circles, there may be the idea that we “should not open any more karmic accounts. That we should settle all karmic accounts at this time.”
Please see that “choosing” to close something, which is the consequence of our previous deeds, has no meaning. It is plain rejection of our own consequences. There is no settlement there, just postponing.
For example, life may bring a person to us. Perhaps we met that person “randomly.” If we have the thought that “I need to close doors” for that person may open a “karmic account,” in all truth; that action of rejection will open further karmic accounts.
We are continuously choosing under this “reality.”
Every “actor” in life has something to teach us, something to make us aware of our own selves., when we are looking, observing. When we have this perspective of learning and wanting to know more about ourselves, we need to be open, we need to let “actors play their parts. In the movie of life.”
We also need to clearly know, when our own “part” in life starts.
Ben felt lonely. He desired to meet a female companion in his life. Anne, was another lonely person wishing to meet her “other” half.
Life brought those two desires together and both people got to know each other by “mistake.”
Ben accepted the opportunity to meet Anne. Ben wanted to take things slowly, one step at a time. Ben had a previous rejection in a relationship. Ben loved that other person, but she left.
Ben needed time to know Anne. Time to forget and forgive. Time to heal.
Anne on the other hand, had other plans in her life. Even though her desire to meet that person was there; her ideas of pursuing “better things” in the future were overwhelming. She had an idea in mind about how things “ought to happen.”
Anne experienced an internal fight within herself. Her emotions started to break down.
Anne rejected Ben at first; later Anne succumbed to her own desires. After sometime, her desires built up and they were out of control. Anne missed the opportunity to observe her own “weaknesses” in action. Her need for company and affection were very strong.
If Anne would have acknowledged her strong desire for company, things could have been easier on her. That lack of sincerity with herself was the cause of further issues.
Things turned around. Anne pursued Ben endlessly. Anne thought that she loved him like she has never loved anyone else. She thought about that “anguish like” sensation of not being close to Ben, to be true love.
Anne went too fast for Ben. She was almost running over his comfort zone. Ben finished that relationship.
Anne was devastated.
In the reality of “I,” there is continually a choice in life. Because there is choosing, there are consequences which will be felt by that “I.”
Note that Ben gave the opportunity, the chance for life to unfold. He accepted life and “acted” when life showed him the “raw” portrait of Anne. Ben did not act out of beliefs, but out of knowing what life brought to him at different times.
Every act has a timing, which needs to be respected.
Knowing ourselves first, brings the chance to know the illusion of the “I” as ego.
Without that ego, there are no more choices.
There is no one choosing. No effects, because there is no one “acting.”
This is a different perspective on life, a different experience, a different consciousness.