Thank you for your great question and your kind words!
As BapDada mentioned today (3-31-13) in the avyakt Murli, it is about “balance.” Enjoy life as a whole, with everything that it brings. Solitude by being “by yourself” is a first and perhaps necessary step for many in the spiritual path. That will change. You will learn to be by “yourself” while with others. When there is that inner power and “will” for self transformation, you will find opportunities, rather than challenges to “test” your stage.
You may express your need to be alone in some occasions. Perhaps “being alone” is not something that some people will understand. They will think that you are depressed and that they need to “cheer you up.” Express your need to “re-charge” yourself to be with them afterwards, with greater energy and enthusiasm.
Spirituality is the expression of love and power. When there is that “power” you will not need to “choose your company.” Spirituality has many stages, and certainly we should be able to recognize, first grade from high school. That is, spirituality is honesty with the self, and because of that; with others.
“Solitude” is important because it allows you to be with everyone being “you.” Otherwise, you will not be YOU but learn to be “them.”
This is not meant as separation but as a reminder than being aware and conscious is not what everyone is interested in.
From this article:
Dear divine brothers and sisters,
Divine person Vs Persons in hell – How to differentiate?
The one who is always peaceful, loveful, joyfull, powerful, knowledgeful, helpful,pure in thoughts and action,honest, trustworthy,generous, always giving, full of enthusiasm,stable in favourable as well as unfavourable cicumstances,or, in prosperity or in calamity, success or failure is a Divine person.His/her singlepoint focus on Yaad, Seva and Satsang( Muralis),his behaviour, action, his whole personality,and a natural soul-to-soul attraction felt by others towards him( Ojas), a glowing face ( Tejas) all indicate a Divine person.
Any person undergoing pain, suffering,failures,or having diseases, defects , disabilities of any kind( Bhog or clearing the Bad karmik account created by the self)is in hell.
Baba comes and gives a technique to burn the bad karmik account- i.e. Jwalamukhi Yaad.( Volcanic Meditation).No sooner a person sheds his/her bad account, he/she becomes free from all sufferings and almost reaches a Karmateet State.
Kirlion Body aura studies show that ” The birds of same feather flock together.” The man is known by the company he keeps.
A divine soul automatically dislikes and avoids the company of undesirables.Because the energy-auras shall repel each other. That is why one likes some persons on first sight without knowing him,and dislikes some other persons.
Hope the query is satisfied.
Baba in Sakar Murlis have been very specific about : ” See no evil, think no evil, do no evil.”
In yesterday’s avyakt Murli (7-29-12) He has urged us to keep pure feelings for all.
I do not find the statement: “A divine soul automatically dislikes and avoids the company of undesirables.”
To be divine.