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Question on loneliness and childhood issues

“dear bro, am I glad or am I proud n happy dat u happened! such a help n relief finally wen all my doubts cleared and gud feelings enabled esp pertaining to gyan. I really want to voice my feelings with u though about my life in one aspect- relationships. I hav never had parental love nor sibling joy inspite of having them in person, my friends always turned against me without a cause, everybody took advantsge of me and today I hav a loving husband but no family, nt dat i’m blaming anyone but I sincerely lack people in my life and feel very lonely, I wonder if this is drama…dat deemed me to live like this?”

Answer:
Dear reader,
Thank you for your kind words of appreciation. Likewise, thanks to readers like yourself is that this blog is still existing.
Let me answer your question from the beginning… 🙂

Gyan or any type of knowledge, is a conceptual vision of life, a road map; to allow you to see your path and how you fit in this world at this time. However, concepts are just concepts. Those concepts will not do a thing to change you and make you feel less of a lonely person. No matter how deep your understanding may be.

Gyan is intellectual but it will not do anything when you have emotions arising, complexes, and cultural upbringing deep-rooted in you which may be burying you, if you are unable to see the “bigger picture.” That is why, God is usually seen as the one who could provide “relief” in your life, emotional support, etc. However, the role of God has been misinterpreted as the one who provides those things which are lacking in us. That in itself is a handicap in our spiritual development. God and Divine energies provide protection while we grow spiritually, but we must do the walk ourselves and learn to supply those things which are lacking in us. We cannot pretend that others will supply that.

It is great that you realize that you had a childhood with issues. Now, look at them in silence, take sometime for yourself, run the “movie” of your own life and see those episodes using your current knowledge, Gyan; and then overcome those emotional issues.
How? By nurturing yourself with love and by giving that which you felt you needed to those who did not provide it for you. If you do not do the inner work first, you will be vulnerable. Realize the complex, realize the issues which made you feel lonely and left out which is hunting you now… even while having the company of a husband.

Once you resolve this emotional issue in yourself, you will see how your life will change, for you will be ready for something new.

When you don’t feel lonely anymore, you will be ready to give companionship to others, thus you “get” what you want from the world by giving that same thing to the world. That is the law of karma, so that is the Drama.

Best wishes!

Reader remark: Thank you note

Thanks immensely brother, it is difficult to express how you and everyone contributing to this blog whom I have not yet thanked in writing (including the beautiful poetry by Precious Pearl, BK TD Joseph, Mathias etc and also all those commenting and asking questions) are helping this soul. Wishing you all the best today and always. Have a wonderful break.

Dear soul,

Thank you very much for your kind and encouraging words! This is a good time to be appreciative on the many sharings given by contributors such as Precious Pearl, Angelsplay, BK TD Joseph and my good friend, Mathias.

Also, as you well indicated those souls commenting, asking questions and sharing their works are truly helping to shape this blog in its current form, as well as those souls proof reading the posts such as BK Gayathri and incognito helpers such as my double sister, Patricia and of course; Divine energies helping at this time.

All of those collaborations have helped many souls in their paths, including of course, avyakt7.

Today is my last day to share something before my vacation.
Thank you all and will see you by mid-July again!

Best wishes!