Tagged: ritual

No fear means emptiness

As long as there is a created personality, there will be fear at different levels.

Fear of what?
Fear of death. Fear of losing a job, fear of losing a “loved one,” fear to be dismissed by the religious group, fear to be left alone, fear of people, fear of saying what is in your heart, fear of the system, fear of the tradition, fear of God, fear of the Devil, fear of life, fear of darkness, fear of ourselves…

All of those fears have the common denominator of our idea of “losing something.”
That something is part of the personality, the created ego which does not realize or does not want to see that everything changes and that nothing remains the same.
We believe that our thoughts, our ideas about something have to be the “same,” by doing that we are blinding ourselves from the “reality” of change.

The runner who wakes up everyday early in the morning at 4:30 AM to run, no matter what; is viewed as an “example to follow.” “Look, he is amazing. He wakes up everyday at 4:30 to run, that is why he looks so slim and fit. I should be like him or “you” should be like him.”

We may not realize that anything which is done without “higher” consciousness tends to become a ritual, something more important than life itself, something which a person cannot live without; that is that “good ritual,” becomes a source of dependency; a new “drug” to keep someone high .

The fact that someone wakes up everyday at 4:30 to run should not be any source of amazement. Is that person enjoying that run? Is that person conscious of what he is doing during the time that he is out there running? What are his ulterior motives to do that?

For some is to “get it over before life gets in between.” For some “ to beat John in the next race, “I” need to train harder and longer.” For others, “to keep their weight down so they can enjoy eating.” Yet for some, the enjoyment of telling people what they do early in the morning, so they feel better about themselves.

All of the above only creates fear in the person. The reality of aging will come by and with that a “forced” change which means suffering. That “achievement” means nothing without enjoyment and gratefulness. At that point we become a “has been.” 🙂

If we are not realizing our own obsessive compulsive behaviors, we cannot enjoy life. All we are doing is feeding that illusory personality, giving that “ghost” life.

As we “work” (realize/understand) with all of our fears, then the possibility to discover emptiness appears; and with that emptiness of personality comes the wholesomeness of life.
Fear free.



I hear that word all the time in religious gatherings.

What is sacred?  What is holy?  What is sacrosanct?

I don’t know. 🙂

That word must be something important. I need to find out. Let me look that word up in the dictionary.

According to the on-line Google dictionary:


  1. Connected with God (or the gods) or dedicated to a religious purpose and so deserving veneration: “sacred rites”.
  2. Religious rather than secular.

Because I know something about duality, I can see that this word is dividing something “Godly” with something “secular,” that is; non-religious, worldly stuff.

Then, the problem arises when we want to pursue that which is “holy” and reject or put aside that which is not.

The issue is that our society, our traditions will choose that which is “holy” as the important thing.

Is the temple “holier” than my office at work?

Is the church sacred and not my apartment?

Is God deserving veneration but not Nature?

Is a ritual, something which God may need or like from us?

We can see how by inventing a word to convey “higher importance” than the other things, we have separated items which otherwise are just the same.

This is the origin of worship. The origin of devotion.

What is the sense of having devotion for something  or someone?

Our sense of inferiority. We can call that with the nicer label of  “love.”

However, love is not between an inferior and a superior. Love is between equals and that is why, devotion cannot be love.

Equality. We know that we are souls. Even God is a soul. That is our equality.

When we accept a tradition and perform a particular ritual, we may need to ask ourselves what is the point on that.

If we don’t,  we may not be venerating the sacredness of our valuable time.

The universe is holy. Life is holy. Sacred. No need to be divided by a dualistic mind.

Question: Dear brother, Is it possible the ritual of visiting Mecca for purification for Muslim might have been from the origin of visiting baba at maduban?

Thank you for your question! 🙂
Gyan mentions that we are “ancestor souls,” therefore; under this vision our current activities will be followed later on by other souls. This is what is known as a “memorial.”
Under that vision, yes we can say that visiting Mecca or any other holy pilgrimage place had its origin in our current practice of visiting Madhuban. However, i would like to remind everyone that the cycle of time is a circle and because of that it can be viewed from different “viewpoints,” according to a “point of reference,” meaning that from the viewpoint of a Muslim soul, our “pilgrimage” to Madhuban is just copying what they do; because for a Muslim; their religion existed way before Brahma Kumaris in their “view of time,” according to their religious views.

This paradox of time and timing is something which needs to be understood and looked at from different perspectives to understand that the “truth” is a paradox.

Best wishes!